Hearing their prospective son-in-law spanking their daughter

Monday, January 18, 2010 · 0 comments

For a guy, meeting prospective in-laws can sometimes be terribly trying and harrowing. No matter how liberal or open your girlfriend's parents may be, somehow there is always that seemingly cold front during the first few meet-ups. Especially when one of the thoughts running through their mind would be that you are the guy who is bonking their baby girl. Now imagine if they realised that you were spanking her as well?

And that was what happened when Lily's parents met Shaun, her fiance, for the first time.

Maybe let's go a little back in time.............

Shortly after receiving her dismal A level results, Lily's parent felt that maybe after ten over years, it was time to see if Lily would do better out of the Singaporean educational system. Thus, they sent her to the US for her studies. As expected, over in the US, Lily gained a newfound interest in her studies and as soon as she had completed her degree, she sought her parents permission to continue with her masters. Delighted that their daughter had become quite the academic, they of course agreed without giving it much thought. At that time, I guess Lily's parents were over the moon at how their decision to send Lily overseas to study seemed so right. But alas, it was too right. For together with her newfound love for studying, Lily also found two other loves – Love for the US and Love for an American guy (Shaun). With those two loves, Lily decided that she would stay on, after her masters, in the US to work and maybe settle down with Shaun if their relationship developed any further.

Three years on, Lily was happily employed and Shaun had proposed. It was settled! She wasn't going to return to Singapore. But then there was the breaking of news to her parents. While they didn't go into a rage, Lily's parents weren't exactly celebrating the news either. For this would mean that Lily would not be back in Singapore with them and, like all parents do, were worried if Lily had made the right decision with Shaun for they had never met him before. And so, within the next two months from Lily breaking the news to them, they flew up to the US to see how their prospective son-in-law was.

Now, unknown to Lily's parents (at that time at least), Lily and Shaun were not in a vanilla relationship but rather they were in a domestic discipline relationship. By this time, Lily and Shaun were living together and were living the domestic discipline relationship 24/7. And since Lily's parents were coming to stay with them, during the duration of their visit to the US, this made it a little tricky for Lily and Shaun. Nevertheless, Shaun and Lily agreed that probably the spankings and discipline may have to be put on hold for the week that Lily's parents were with them. Already as it was, it would be the first time that they would be meeting Shaun, and they didn't want to scare them with the thought that Shaun was spanking Lily.

The first two days of Lily's parents arrival went pretty well. Shaun and Lily's parents hit it off from the start and by the second day, it was evident that any fears or apprehension that Lily's parents initially had, were no longer existent. However, there was this issue of Lily's attitude towards her parents which Shaun wasn't very comfortable with. I guess to a certain extent, in the presence of her parents, Lily regressed to become the princess that she normally was when she was in Singapore. Being the only daughter, Lily was quite the pampered one. She was used to getting her way with her parents and would raise her voice if she didn't get her way. Now respect to the elders was something Shaun was a little particular about, he had spanked her before for some disrespectful comments she had said to his mother. But since they had agreed, that the spankings would be on hold for the duration of Lily's parents' stay with them, he only raised his observation to her at night when they retired to bed. He also warned that he didn't want to see her continuing with that sassy attitude towards her parents or else she would get it after they left.
However, it seemed that Lily was to used to being that way around her parents and despite Shaun trying to remind her subtly of their conversation about her attitude towards her parents, by giving the “look” ever so often, Lily couldn't seem to be able to help herself. Especially since her mother, like all concerned mothers, would sometime dish out words of advice, which Lily didn't take kindly to for she deemed it nagging, which she hated. By now, Shaun was beginning to feel a little sorry for Lily's parents and at times would try to diplomatically tell Lily, when her conversation with her parents got a little heated, to tone it down. I guess, it kinda further impressed Lily's parents for they never felt that the westerners shared the Asian values of “respect for one's elders”.

Things however got out of hand on the last night before Lily's parents left. As it was their last dinner with Shaun and Lily, Lily's mother decided to cook an authentic Singaporean Chinese dinner for him. And as they discussed some of the wedding plans over dinner, the conversation got a little too heated which culminated, despite Shaun's repeated attempts to get Lily to tone it down, in Lily hurling some rather hurtful words at her parents.

There was a rather tense moment of silence after the words left Lily's mouth.

It was the last straw for Shaun, having had to bear the past week of seeing Lily verbally abuse her parents, he decided that something had to be done there and then. With a diplomatic smile, in a bid to diffuse the tense silence, he stood up and suggested that they discuss it over dessert and asked Lily to help him get it from the kitchen as he held her up as if to motion her to follow him.

As soon as they entered the kitchen and the door had closed behind them, in one smooth motion, Shaun sat down on one of the chairs and pulled Lily over his knee. And before Lily could even begin to struggle, he held her down with one hand and began spanking her bottom rather rapidly as he scolded her for the terrible attitude that she had been showing towards her parents over the past week. It was a quick and hard spanking, without any warm up, which drew a response from Lily from the very first spank. Amidst her cries of pain, she pleaded with Shaun not to spank her there and then for her parents were outside and could her them. But her pleas fell on deaf ears as Shaun commented that she should have thought about that before she had shown her attitude towards them. The over-the-knee handspanking lasted only about a minute before Shaun tugged down her shorts & panties, and reached behind for a wooden spoon with which he spanked her bare bottom in quick hard and rapid spanks for about twenty times. Despite the short spanking, the intensity and strength brought tears streaming down Lily's face. As he stood her up, he told her that this was only a reminder and she would get a proper punishment once her parents had left. This drew more tears from Lily but Shaun instructed her to wipe her face and told her that once they went out, he expected her to apologise to her parents for her terrible attitude.

As they went out, Shaun and Lily knew, from the look on her parents' face, that they must have heard everything that had gone on in the kitchen. It was extremely embarrassing for Lily but Shaun acted as if nothing had happened and with a casual smile put the dessert down on the table and began to dish out the dessert to them. As he did that, he matter-of-factly announced looked at Lily and said, “I thought you had something to say to your parents?” Lily knew that Shaun meant an apology, and although all she really wanted to do was to run off to the room to hide her embarrassment and her tear-stained face, she knew that Shaun meant business and so looking down, she mouthed her word of apology to her parents for her attitude. Now unknown to Shaun, at that time, it was the first time that she had ever apologised to her parents. And I suppose, while they may have found it a little uncomfortable that their prospective son-in-law was spanking their daughter, they were also probably amazed that he could make her apologise to them. The awkward atmosphere soon got back to normal as Shaun initiated a conversation in a bid to shift they attention from that “awkward situation”. But feeling that he owed her parents an explanation, later in the night, Shaun knocked on the guest room door and tried to explain about the domestic relationship that he and Lily had and also assured them that he wasn't abusing her. Although Lily's parent did not seem angry with him, I suppose they were slightly uncomfortable and did not give any comments.

The next day however, the first hint of approval came in the form of Lily's parents telling him, as he and Lily bade them farewell at the airport, that they were assured that Lily was in good hands.

As soon as Shaun and Lily reached home from the airport, Lily got her promised proper punishment. Shaun made her strip and gave her a hard ten minute over-the-knee handspanking on her bare bottom. He then belted her bare bottom for about fiften minutes as she laid over the arm of the couch before ending the punishment with a twenty minute paddling as she laid on the bed. He then made her kneel on the cushion in the corner with her hands on her head for half an hour after that. Needless to say, Shaun gave her a maintenance spanking, which consisted of a two minute barebottom handspanking and a five minute belting, every night for the next week.

The final approval, more comical approval, from Lily's parents came two weeks after that in the form of a package sent to Shaun from Lily's parents. In that package was a letter, and a cane (the kind that you can buy in the neighbourhood shops here in Singapore).

Now so Shaun and Lily are now happily married, still in a domestic discipline relationship, and a baby boy on the way.

A reader's attempt to spank his girlfriend

Thursday, January 14, 2010 · 1 comments

Once again, I am proud to bring to you a little real life spanking experiences that one of you (dear readers of my humble spanking blog) have shared. Now I must first warn that this may not have the usual or as much spanking as the usual stories. But I have chosen to publish it (with his permission of course) as this story is essentially a part of spanking real life which is ignored sometimes. Contrary to popular belief, not all spanking relationships happen out of thin air, or have a successful spanking from the on-start. Therefore, I personally find it good to share some of the hiccups that many of us spankos would face in real life. At the same time, I also hope that many of you would maybe be able to give him some advice.

So without boring you further with my rambling......read on below (I have not edited any part of it, just copied and pasted. Only exception was the name at the end.)

Hi bro

I would like to share a short story of my own. Your blog has been very informative and carried some hope for me, with regards to Singaporean girls. But of course, with my own struggles in my own relationship, I'm still pretty downhearted.

Anyway, my short story is quite related to your latest blog post.

I can fully emphatize with the Martin guy in your latest post. I have, I would say, a good looking girl friend. She has a nice body, nice figure, and a pretty face. However, she is rather flat on the chest and her butt. As a closet spanko, I looked past that, and have many times did very similiar things which Martin did. Which is, to playfully spank her, tease her about spanking, and also tried only ONCE, to wrestle her over my knee to give her 3 spanks. On this occasion, she just stood up with a quite nonchalent look, with a hint of displeasure.

I may have missed my golden opportunity to really punish her with a spanking when there was 1 time, I told her I wanted to end our relationship as it was really stressful with our frequent quarrels and also my uni studies. She was so devastated that she cried, begged and pleaded with me not to break up, saying that she will change her ways. She even told me to hit her, and even tried to kneel down in front of me to say she was sorry. Well, I was so incredibly upset that day that of course, spanking did not cross my mind. I was really kind of set on breaking up, but with her actions which I just described, my heart just melted again, and took her back.

In retrospect, that was really a good place for me to possibly introduce spanking to her. If I was not dead set on breaking up, or too upset that day, I believe my mind would have automatically turned towards that direction.

That opportunity was quite some time ago. Although just very recently, my girlfriend has been giving me really weird and contradicting answers. Well, it goes like this.
I had been reading and googling about introducing vanilla people to spanking. Reading, reading, reading..... I believe the constant bombardment of ideas into my head caused me to have a sudden surge in courage one fine day.
Well, we were having sex. Although this sex activity was after quite a long hiatus, we still felt comfortable with each other. So we were in the spooning position, I was admiring her butt while humping her from behind when I just blurted out, "Dear, I read in sex manuals that if I tap your backside while having sex, you will feel shiok."

She replied " Really meh?"
Me: "Really. Want to try?"
She: "Haiz... Anything."
So I just proceeded to give her a few spanks, and for the 1st time, I did not receive any complaint while spanking her butt. These spanks were not too hard though. Oh by the way, she was always complaining that when I give her those playful spanks, she says its too hard, highly because of her relatively flat butt.

After sex, I asked her:" Hmm, so did you like me tapping your backside? You did not like me doing it last time whenever I hit your backside."
She :" In public ma, I don't like that. Private can abit la."
Me: "Interesting. From all your reactions last time, I thought you don't want me to tap tap your backside at all."
She :" This type of thing natural one la (referring to during sex). No need to ask one."

Needless to say, I was ecstatic for the entire following week. Only to be met with disappointment the following weekend. I was at her place again the following weekend and I asked her :" So you want to try? Let me lay with your backside, tap tap, hit it. You will feel quite shiok one."

She:" No la, I'm not the type of girl who will like this one. Some girls will la, I know. But I don't like this at all."

1 week of ecstasy just disappeared within 5 seconds.

Here's where the contradicting part comes in. I stayed over at her place after a wedding dinner. Well, with alcohol, we can't drive. We were about to have sex when I just decided to be bold and just ask again.

"Dear, turn over leh, I want to play with your backside."
She :" Huh? Aiya..."
But surprisingly, she flipped over. As it was quite late at night, I just spanked her butt relatively softly, just to have adequate sound, and enough to excite me. We then proceeded to have great sex.
Maybe it was the alcohol, but after sex, we were talking abit and I confessed a little bit about my spanko side.

"Dear, I duno why la, but I like it when I spank your butt. I know you don't really like it but I hope you can compromise abit and let me spank a little. I know you don't like it hard, then of course I will definitely adjust how hard I hit la."

She did not respond. To me, it was a real encouragement as she would normally protest very strongly against this. With her silence, I took that she was contemplating what I said and whether she could do it.

Now here comes the weirdest part. Just abit later, I asked her this question. "But dear, why you don't want me to spank you harder? You never try, you won't know what."

Her response :" Cuz too loud la. I scared cuz my father sleeping in the living room."
Me :" Ok, next time nobody I spank you harder la."

No response.

Ok, why I called that weird is because I was illustrating above that she did not like spankings at all. I was assuming that if I asked her why I could not spank her harder was because it would be too pain for her. When she said it was only because of the noise it generated, it made me really excited again, but of course confused. Does she or does she not like it?

I think it was just the next day, she was feeling quite tired and lying tummy down on my mattress. I was nearby experimenting with my new laptop when she grabbed my hand and pulled it down to her butt. I was like "Why? Want me to spank you ah."

She :" Massage."
Me :" But before massage must spank ma."
So I gave her some spanks, then some massages, and then alternating these 2 activities for only about a minute. Because by then, she fell asleep.

So anyway, this is my story. I am still seeing if I can spank my girlfriend abit more than normal, and if she is even receptive of such activities. And abit about myself. I did now know that I liked spanking until 2002, when I just tried googling the word "bdsm" for fun and found out about a while new world. But I was not surprised as I remember during my Junior college (JC) times, I alternated between fantasizing about sex and spanking the butts of girls I had crushes on. And I am now still a closet spanko. No one knows that I like this activity. My girlfriend still does not comprehend that such activities exists. So I guess I'm either doomed to be alone in my spanking fantasy, or continuing with an enigmatic girlfriend (about spanking of course).

Thank you for reading.

MR S (Name changed to protect privacy)

*So any comments or advice from you guys?* - Spankalot

Spankable pictures 001

Friday, January 8, 2010 · 1 comments

Dear readers, ever so often I come across many spankable photos which I have been tempted to post here but have refrained as I wanted to make this blog as SFW (safe for work) as possible. But I guess its time for a change.

Let's test today with a single picture:

Is this spankable?

Introduced To Spanking In Secondary School

Wednesday, January 6, 2010 · 0 comments

Now before I continue with this let me put a few disclaimers and warnings. Firstly be warned that the following story deals with the spanking of a minor. I do not condone nor do I recommend it. Nevertheless, my blog is about REAL LIFE SPANKING EXPERIENCES, and so with real life......it does not always follow the ideals. I do not promote the spanking of underage girls but unfortunately this is an experience of a friend who wanted to contribute and thus I give her my respect. But out of the respect of the whole holier-than-thou crowd, I will refrain as much as I can from explicitly stating the age. The next thing is, there are many guys who have asked the age old question.....”How do I spank my girlfriend” or something along that line. Please do not take this story as a positive example on how to introduce your girlfriend to spankings. So do we have an understanding?

Good. Let me move on to the story.

The first time that Cassandra thought she was about to have sex, she ended up with a well-striped and well-spanked very red bottom. Nope she did not lose her virginity on that fateful day, but it marked the day she was introduced to the world of pleasure and pain.

As Cassandra vividly remembers, it was the week after the final year examinations. She was in Secondary 3 at that time things were not going too well with her boyfriend (let's call him Tom) of almost three years. They had been together since they were in Secondary 1. But at that point in time their relationship seemed on the rocks. They had been quarrelling quite frequently and the usual fights that couples at that age go through. Close to the start of the examinations, Tom had initiated a breakup with Cassandra. This did not go down well with her, for at that time, Tom was the world to her and she was not able to accept the fact that he wanted to end their relationship. For the first two days, she called him non-stop and pestered him with msgs, pleading and begging him not to end the relationship. Her persistance would have continued but Tom had pulled the ultimate threat......he used the guilt-trap. As it was the start of the two week final examinations, Tom threatened that if she kept pestering him, he would be unable to focus on the examinations which would then result in him failure and the blame would be on her. It worked, Cassandra stopped the constant calls but only after Tom also agreed that he would reconsider his decision to end the relationship and let her know on the last day of the examinations. So although Cassandra refrained from calling him non-stop, she dropped him a msg of good luck every morning and night. In addition, she also sent a similar message to him everynight that kinda was something like “I really miss you.......please don't leave me.......I will do anything............I really hope you will tell me that you will be with me still after the exams” or something like that. I don't know the exact words for Cassandra herself has forgotten them.

Pretty soon, but not soon enough for Cassandra, the last week of the examinations was nearing its end. It was actually the second last day of the exams. Surprisingly Cassandra still sort of vividly remembers the gush of relief and happiness that she felt when she received Tom's message that night. His frostiness had actually began to melt slowly after the first week of the examinations. Where he would ignore her messages the week before, he would now reply at least a “Thanks” or “Good luck to you too” when she messaged him her good wishes for the exams. But he still did not reply to her message of getting back together. Then, on that night before that last paper, she sent the same message, pleading for him to not break up, but this time she also went for broke. Apart from the usual, she also added a “I will have sex with you”. It wasn't too long after she had sent the message that Tom replied. She held her breath as she opened his message, a cocktail of mixed feelings inside of her – ecstatic that he had replied yet fearful that it would be the words she did not want to hear. But all that was there was a one-liner that went, “You sure you will do anything?” And she replied something like “Yes anything.....anything you want.....even sex.” So I suppose one could understand why Cassandra would think that Tom had sex in mind when he replied her. This was further affirmed in Cassandra's mind when he replied, “Ok, meet you after the exams, we go back to my place.” I guess one can't blame her for thinking at that time that she was indeed going to have sex with Tom to “save her relationship” with him. In fact she was even a little disappointed at that time that Tom would not leave her just because she would have sex with him.

But she was so wrong..........(plus she now recalls that Tom had never broached the issue of sex before, and so she doesn't know what made her offer that in the first place)

After the final paper the next day, Tom and Cassandra made their way to Tom's place. Although, for the observer, things seemed normal between them. They held hands as they walked, but there was a funny feeling and there was not much of a conversation between them. It almost seemed as if they were rushing towards Tom's place.

As usual, Tom's place was empty when they reached, his parents worked late and he was the only child. It wasn't the first time that Cassandra had been there, just two of them, but this time she remembered that the placed seem a little foreign. Maybe it was in anticipation of what she thought was going to happen.

As she entered Tom's room, she heard him lock the door to his room. But there was an awkward few minutes as Cassandra sat in silence on his bed while Tom sat on his chair facing her......he too seating there silently. Their eyes met a few times, only to quickly dart away as if wanting a certain connection but yet pushing away once there was an initial buzz. Then Tom suddenly reached out from his chair for her arms and pulled her off the bed and on him. As she sat on his lap, her arms over his shoulders, she avoided his eyes as he asked, “So you will do anything?” Cassandra could feel her face turning red and she looked down to avoid his piercing eyes. “You said you would do anything right?”, he asked again this time gently lifting her chin so that her eyes met his. Only momentarily did she look into his eyes before she darted them away as she gave a rather demure nod. “So you will do anything I want you to and not refuse?”, he probed once more. Once again she gave that same shy nod.

“Ok, just stand here and don't move.” Tom said as he helped her up and placed her standing in front of him facing him. Slowly but not nervously, he unbutton her school blouse and removed it, letting it drop to the floor behind her and revealing her white bra beneath it. Her hands fidgeted by her side nervously as she stood there frozen with embarrassment not knowing what to expect or do. Tom moved on to her skirt as he unfastened the buckle, unzipped and let the skirt fall to the floor. As the skirt dropped to her legs, Cassandra's mind was telling her to move her legs and step out of the fallen skirt, but somehow she remained frozen to her spot, unable to move. Not that it mattered to Tom for as soon as the skirt had dropped, he spun her around and unbuckled her bra before spinning her back to face him and gently removing the bra with his fore finger. Instinctively, she moved her hands to cover her breasts. But Tom's hands met hers on its way up and gently guided them down to her sides. Her cheeks burned with embarrassment and she kept her head tilted downwards, unable to bear looking up towards him. Soon she felt his fingers tuck into the waistband of her panties and a tug which led them down her legs until they dropped to her feet. Once again, embarrassment and instinct took over Cassandra's arms as they both moved in unison in a futile attempt to cover her lower private region as Tom once again intercepted them and gently led them back to her sides. Tom stood up and spun her around once more and led her to and on his bed. And made her go on her fours on her bed. “Don't move”, he told her as he moved around the bed as if inspecting a sculpture. He adjusted her hand positioning and pushed her bottom out a bit further. Cassandra had watch a few porn flicks with Tom before and as she held the position that Tom put her in, she replayed the “doggy scene” that she had seen on those porn videos and reckoned that was how Tom was going to take her virginity. She could feel the warmth of Tom's palm as he moved it gently around her bottom. The new array of sensations drew deep gasps and breaths of anticipation from Cassandra. And as he caressed her bottom, he told her, “Don't move no matter what happens..............you will feel pain.........but try and keep still.” She heard a certain movement behind here which she mistakenly assumed to be Tom removing his clothes. She was still wondering how pain it would be when Tom “inserted” into her, like in the porn movies that she had seen.

But alas it wouldn't be “that kind of pain” that she would feel for without any warning she heard a faint swish which was quickly followed by a crack and Cassandra gasped in shock and pain as she felt a searing line of pain across her bottom. Tom had just given her one fairly stingy stroke of the cane. The shock and the pain had kicked her bodily instincts once again as her hands pushed her up into a kneel position and her hand reached back to rub away the searing pain on her bottom. But Tom pushed her back into position and placed on hand on her back to stop her from getting back up as he said, “I told you not to move right?”

“But its painful......what did you just do?”, Cassandra winced.

Swishing the cane in front of her, he told her, “Its called a cane.”.

Cassandra's eyes widened as she looked at the thin rattan cane in Tom's grip.

“I know you thought I wanted to have sex with you, but that wasn't what I had in mind.” Tom said as he place the cane down on the bed in front of her.

For a moment there, Cassandra felt a certain joyous relief for Tom was not staying with her just for sex, but then this was suddenly overcome with worry for if he wasn't going to have sex with her this meant..........

“Then what? You want to beat me?”, Cassandra asked in a shocked and worried voice.

Tom chuckled as he said, “Its not beating, its called a punishment spanking. Plus you said you would do anything right?”

Cassandra did not get to respond for immediately after Tom had said that, he began spanking her bottom his hand and the only things that came out of Cassandra's mouth were oohs and ahhhs.

“Its a newfound interest”, Tom explained as he continued with the spanking.

The handspanking got harder and harder, and so did Cassandra's cries.

“Please.....stop...”, Cassandra said as soon as she found her voice, “its very painful.”

“Nope, you said you would do anything.” Tom said as he continued spanking her bottom with his hand.

“Stop it!”, Cassandra exclaimed this time louder as she got up on her knees and pushed Tom away before rubbing her bottom and continuing, “I didn't know that you would mean this.”

There was a few seconds of silence before Tom gave a loud sigh and slumped back on his chair and said, “See......I knew it. That's why I wanted to break up. Because I knew you would not be interested in this.”

That statement took Cassandra by surprise, “You mean that's why you wanted to break up with me?”

“Its a new found interest I have. And I just knew you would not be into it. But I am interested, get it?” Tom said.....slightly exasperated.

“I don't understand.........you mean you are interested in beating me?” Cassandra asked, trying to make sense of what she was hearing from Tom.

“Its not beating.......its.......spanking.......its.......”, Tom tried to find the words to explain.

Then he heaved another sigh and said, “Nevermind, I will show you.”

And he flipped open his laptop and turned on one of the spanking/bdsm videos that he had downloaded and showed it too Cassandra.

Cassandra watched the clip amazed as Tom sat next to her on the bed. And as she watch she noticed that although in pain, the girl in the video seemed to be enjoying it as well.

After the first minute or two, she asked, “Why do you like this?”

“I don't know........I just do.”, Tom replied.

“And you really wanted to break up because of this.”, Cassandra asked.

Tom nodded as he said,”Its an interest I really have, and I know it will only cause more problems for us cause you don't like it. And I can't get rid of this interest.”

Cassandra looked at the screen for a few more minutes before she shut the flip top and passed it back to Tom.

Tom sighed as he took the laptop and got up to place it on his table. I guess what he saw next was not what he was expecting.

As he turned back towards the bed, he saw Cassandra once again on her fours and she turned her head back towards him and said, “Don't break up with me, I'll try it since you are interested.”

She saw that cute grin appear on his face once more as he reached for the cane.

That afternoon, Cassandra experienced what a mix of pain and pleasure was as Tom used the cane to stripe her bottom leaving her screaming and close to tears. But then he would move on to rubbing her clit ever so often giving that mind blanking and body shaking pleasurable sensations that she felt for the first time. Tom would alternate between spanking or caning or belting her, and rubbing her wet clit. He put her in different positions, he even tied her up. The pain was so intense that there were tears but the pleasure was also very intensed that she was drawn.........drawn towards it.......her inner spanko was unleashed on that fateful day.

Happy New Year and A Reader's Spanking Experience to start the year!

Friday, January 1, 2010 · 1 comments

My sincerest apologies dear readers for my absence, I was bogged down with the year end festivities and work. Nevertheless, it is 1 Jan 2010 already here in Singapore and thus HAPPY NEW YEAR everyone and may 2010 be a spanking good year!

Today I will kick of the year with a real life story that has been submitted to me by one of you. She is a Singaporean lady who has kinda emigrated to a country she will not reveal for personal reasons. But nevertheless........here is her real life spanking story:


Hi I have been a lurker on your blog for sometime and I like reading your stories.

I have been in a spanking relationship with my fiance for sometime already. Maybe a little intro. I am 22 year old Singaporean lady who is currently studying overseas and living with my finace and his mother. I am doing my foundation year, yes it seems late but this is because I worked straight after my O levels and met my finace when he was posted to Singapore to the same company I was working at then. I quit my job when he was posted back to go over to study and settle down with him after my studies. We live with his mother and him back in their home country. I hope you don't mind that I am not sharing the actual country because I am afraid that some of the people who know me back home in Singapore may read you blog. Anyway so much for the intro.

I am actually spanked by both my fiance and his mother. But most of the time I am spanked by my fiance. Most of the spankings that I receive are for discipline. They are always on the bare bottom and even if they don't start on the bare bottom, it would end on the bare bottom. Sometimes I have to be naked too. If I am really bad. His mother can be very strict when she is spanking me, but she is also quite loving and like a mother to me. Maybe I feel it more because my parents died when I was very young and I lived with my relatives who did not bother much about me. For my personal life and school, my finace will spank me. His mother only spanks me if I am rude to her or if I do not do my chores.

About a few month ago, my fiance was in charge of some project and had to travel quite often. So because of this he is away from home at least ten days and then he comes back for about three to four days. And so because this is supposed to be his working arrangement for about the next year, his mother is in charge of my discipline for now. But my fiance and his mother have some agreement. Whenever his mother spanks me, she makes me note it down in this little black notebook. And then when my fiance comes back home, I will be punished again.

Am I confusing you? Maybe I can explain a little. I will give you an example of the 14 days. Just nice because my husband just left today. The first day he was not around was Tuesday. So I give you a breakdown.

On Tuesday – My fiance had left quite late the night before and so I was tired in the morning. So I decided not to go to school. And when his mother came to check why I had not woken up yet, I lied to her that there was no classes. I thought she would not know, but my fiance had given her a copy of my class schedule. And so not only was I spanked for waking up late, but also for lying about my class. Normally I get like a one or two minute handspanking on my barebottom if I wake up late, but because I lied about not having class she gave me twenty spanks with the hairbrush as well.

Wednesday – On wednesday, I happen to be with a few friends hanging around the campus during breaktime. And we were smoking, which was not allowed at that part of the campus and the security came to chase us off. It so happened that that particular security man stayed nearby to where we stayed and he knew my fiance's mother. So he told her. Now smoking is a big no no especially when I already managed to quit. And so his mother gave me a bare bottom spanking and the hairbrush as well for that.

Thursday – On thursday I think I was in a bad mood and when his mother happened to comment that she had to spank me for two days in a row already, we got into a little argument and it was actually ok until I had to stupidly tell her to “Fuck off”. Hurling vulgarities at her is also a big no no. If my fiance was around he would have spanked me after she had spanked me. Thankfully he was not around. I got a very long and hard bare bottom spanking from his mother for that.

Friday /Saturday – On Friday I actually told my fiance's mother that I had to rush a dateline for a project to be handed in the next day so I would not be back and would be rushing it through the night at my group mates hostel room. Of course it was a lie, cause I wanted to go to a party and my fiance doesn't allow me to go partying when he is not around as I can get quite while and he is afraid he will not be around to take care of me. Anyway I got too drunk and I had also forgotten to tell my friends that I would not be going home and so they brought me home. Of course my fiance's mother was very upset, she would have spanked me then but because I was so drunk, she sent me to bed. In fact I only realised I was home the next morning when she woke me up. I got a bare bottom spanking, the hairbrush and the belt for that.

Sun – It is an agreement and a rule that I sleep by eleven if I have classes the next day. But on Sunday I was playing on facebook and forgot the time. His mother happened to come in at 1 am and gave me a quick but hard bare bottom spanking for not being in bed.

Monday – Of course the very next day I could not wake up and so on Monday I got another bare bottom spanking for waking up late.

Tuesday – Tuesday I decided to skip class as I felt that it was not an important class and there was a good movie showing. Unfortunately his mother happened to be in the same shopping mall having tea with her friends and when I reached home I got a long bare bottom spanking for not going to class that day.

My fiance came back on Thurday morning while I was at class. But when he came to pick me up from campus I knew that I was in trouble as I saw him leaning on his car reading the little black book. He was already scolding me in car as he drive home. Normally when he is away, I only get like one or two spankings......three or four max by his mother. So seven days out of ten days getting spanked was a bit too much. Usually, he would just give me one very long and hard spanking when he returned home for the spankings that his mother had given me. And then I would only get another short spanking just before he went off again as a reminder. But this time because I had gotten so many spankings from his mother and some of offences were considered severe he decided that he was going to spank me everyday. Somemore ah normally he would come back on friday and then be around for about three days, but this time he came back on thursday which means I get four days of spankings. The moment we reach home he make me stand in the corner of the living room with my hands behind my back and he went to take his implements. He gave me a very long and hardspanking on my bare bottom for so long I think it lasted for at least 15 mins and I was crying. But it was going to be dinnertime so he made me stand in the corner until dinner time. I was not allowed to wear back my skirt and panties and had to eat dinner with him and his mother sitting on the chair bare bottom. After dinner he gave me another hard handspanking and then as I was washing the dishes, he stand beside me and scold me and use a wooden spoon to spank my bottom on and off. After I finish washing the dishes, he made me go to the living room. His mother was there and he made me take of my top and bend over the single seat sofa and then he spank me twenty hard times with his belt and each time he make me say to his mother – Sorry I was rude to you. After that I had to stand in the corner for almost an hour then at ten pm he bring me up to the room and gave me another hard bare bottom spanking before making me go to bed. The next morning he gave me another spanking before he sent me to campus. When brought me back from campus I was given another hard spanking again and made me go to the corner again before dinner. After dinner he spanked by hand with his belt for smoking. And then he made me lie over the single seat sofa again and he spanked my bottom with his belt for one of the longest time. On Saturday again I get a hard bare bottom spanking in the morning and in the afternoon as well. In the afternoon he also used his mother's hairbrush on me for not going to school. At night I get the belt again and I was screaming everytime the belt spank me. On Sunday he left in the afternoon. But he spanked me in the morning and gave me the belt again the in the afternoon. I was really a painful few days. And because I was so bad everynight until he comes back I will get a bare bottom spanking from his mother. And I have to ask her for it at 9pm. If I dun and she come and ask me, she will use the hairbrush too. If his mother says that my behaviour improves when he comes back then I wun have to be spank every night or not it will continue. My fiance also says he will get a cane and a paddle this time and he will spank me with it when he comes back if I am spank as many times again.

So that is my current situation. Hope I will not have to get the cane and the paddle when he comes back.

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