Reader's Submission: Spanked while in the University

Friday, January 23, 2009 · 7 comments

Dear Readers, it's time again for another real life spanking experience submitted by one of you. Do enjoy.

Hi I chanced upon your blog and reading some of the stories brought back some memories of my childhood. My parents were very strict with me growing up, though in a way I probably would not have graduated from University if not for them.

My parents were always strict with me and throughout my Primary to my Junior College years they made sure that I focused fully on my studies. Everyday I was expected to return home straight after school and as my mother was a housewife, she would ensure that I did my homework and revised whatever was thought in school that day. Since my primary school days, I learnt that my studies were not to be taken lightly and any bit of complacency that my mother detected in my attitude towards my studies were dealt with immediately and painfully. Being spanked and caned was not uncommon. This resulted in me doing extremely well in all my examinations.

My parents were strict not only with my studies but also with made sure that I did not mix with bad company. Although I was allowed to go out with my friends occasionally during the weekends, my parents always had a curfew for me, even when I was in Junior College. And if I broke the curfew, it was dealt with severely and I would be grounded for quite a while after that. Though I must admit that once I had gone into Secondary school, I never broke much of the rule that my parents set for me and therefore I was spanked or caned only a few times. Nevertheless, they were still strict with me. Therefore when I was accepted into a UK university to study accounting, I jumped at the offer knowing that once overseas I would be free from my “parents' clutches” and would have all the freedom in the world. It was quite a good university and therefore my parents agreed to me studying overseas and very soon I found myself in the UK enjoying as much of the freedom that I could have. The problem was the my newfound freedom was quite overwhelming and I got carried away. I partied and did a whole lot of other crazy things with my new friends at the university and did not pay much attention to my studies. Reality soon sank in as I received notice that I had flunked my first year and would have to repeat the whole year. Although I was disappointed in myself, I was confident that I would be able to make the next year and went back to Singapore for my holidays intending to keep this from my parents. I reckoned that I could always tell them that I had taken up additional modules if they ever asked why I did not graduated in three years. And so when I returned home to Singapore I acted as everything was well and my parents were none the wiser........for the first week at least.

As I had applied to the university just a few months before my 18th birthday, my father had to give consent to me studying there. And because of this a copy of my results were sent to my parents place in Singapore, addressed to his name. All hell broke loose the day the letter came. My parents were extremely upset and the moment my mother had read the letter, I found myself over her knee in that all too familiar position with her hand spanking my bottom mercilessly. My parents got even more upset when I owned up about how I had actually spent my time in the UK, and as an effort to ensure that my punishments was more severe, my mother declared all future punishments would be on the bare from then onward. Prior to that, all of the spankings and canings were solely on my panties at the least. I was not allowed to go out for the rest of my holidays back in Singapore and was made to catch up on all the studying that I had missed out on during that past year. To make matters worse, at the suggestion of my father, my mother gave me a spanking each morning before I started with my studying so that the pain on my bottom would remind me that I had to concentrate on my studies. And that was not the only spanking I received in the day. As I had spent that past year mucking around, I found it hard to get the momentum of studying and found myself dozing off while trying to study. Whenever this happened, my mother would pull me over her lap and give me about ten to twenty spanks on my bottom to “wake me up” from my slumber. I guess my father must have been quite upset as well for although my father had all along let my mother handle the punishments meted out on me, this time he got involved. Each night before I went to bed, he would use his belt and gave me 5 strokes of the belt on my bottom albeit with my panties on. Thankfully my mother did not use the cane then, maybe because she knew that if she caned me everyday my bottom would have bled. And I endured the punishment thinking that it would only last the month as I would soon be returning to the university.

However on the day that I was to leave for the UK, I was dealt with a surprise. My parents had discussed and had decided that my mother would stay with me in the UK during the period of my studies so as to ensure that I did not lose focus on my studies again. As my father had to work, he would only come over every few months. So instead of going back to the hostel, my mother and I moved into a rented apartment which was about a ten minutes walk from the university. That night as we unpacked, my heart dropped as I realised that my mother had brought along her trusty cane and one of my father's belt. I got a spanking and a caning that very night when I brought my clothes back from the hostel and my mother noticed that the bulk of my clothes were all quite the skimpy kind.

The first day of classes as I was about to leave the apartment for the university, my mother asked if I had forgotten something and I was actually puzzled. Then as she closed the door and led me back to the sofa I soon realised that she had intended to give me a spanking every single day before I went for classes in the university. She said that the sting on my bottom as I sat through the day's classes would ensure that I remembered that I had to focus on my studies. My mother also made an appointment with my dean and asked if she could get a weekly progress from my professors and lecturers with regards to my studies. Unfortunately for me the dean agreed and because I had already gotten in my professors bad books the year before, the weekly progress reports that were given to my mother were less than favourable.

And so for most of that year each morning my mother would spank me on my bare bottom before I went for my classes. She had a copy of my class schedules and thus I had no choice but to return back to the apartment almost immediately after my classes for the day ended. She made sure that the rest of the time I spent after classes were spent studying at the few times my laziness crept in, it would be another trip over her knee. The cane and the belt were reserved for the weekly progress reports and each time I had an unfavourable report from my professors, my bottom would feel my mother's wrath with the cane and the belt. It was an extremely painful time, and my mother stayed throughout the next two years and only returned to Singapore in my final year for she felt that I had regained my focus in my studies. But before she left for Singapore, she gave me a rather severe spanking and caning which now when I look back, did keep me from going haywire after she returned to Singapore. I continued to focus on my studies after that and sure enough graduated the very year.

It wasn't the most pleasant experience and though I hate to admit it, the spankings I received then may have contributed to me graduating at least.

An all-female threeway spanking arrangement

Sunday, January 18, 2009 · 4 comments

Dear Readers, I apologise for my long absence for there was a problem with my internet connection both at work and at home. Therefore have been shut out from the blogosphere for a while. Nevertheless, I am back and bringing you another real life spanking Singaporean story.

Alyssa 27 is one of the few Singaporean female tops/doms (read: someone who gives the spankings) I get along pretty well with. Like a lot of female doms around, she started in the scene as a bottom/sub and somehow grew into the role of dom. But that is a story for another time. Alyssa has a sister, Adeline, who is 19 and does know about Alyssa's spanking activities. Well she does now which is largely the point of this story so read on!

Alyssa and Adeline have always been close and even after Alyssa rented her own pad, Adeline would spend some weekends at Alyssa's place. It was a normal sisterly relationship and they both loved each other to death. Every time that Adeline spent the night over, it would be like a girly slumber party where they would share intimate secrets about themselves over romantic movies and a whole lot of junk food. Alyssa however did hold back on a certain secret about herself. It was about her alternative fetish in spankings. Well it was more than that, it was more like BDSM. Adeline would always be the baby sister in Alyssa's eyes and therefore some things one doesn't share with a baby sister.

However unknown to Alyssa, Adeline too had a secret that she had been keeping from Alyssa. She too had a fetish for spankings, an interest in BDSM and a inner desire to be dominated. But at her young age, Adeline was unsure if such feelings were alright and therefore did not share it with her elder sister. Somehow in Singapore, I guess there is still some stigma about sharing certain intimate details with one's elder sibling.

Well life can throw us some pretty weird coincidences.................

Alyssa had a sub/slave, Jane. They were actually colleagues and somehow over a night of drinks realised that they shared the same kinky interests and after a while a dom/sub relationship developed between them. They had been in such a relationship for over five years at that time. It was also around that time that Jane had asked Alyssa if she could move in with her. Jane's landlord wanted her to shift out and therefore was looking for a place. At the same time, Jane too had a sub whom Jane thought of asking to shift in. Apart from looking for a place to stay, Jane also felt that she seemed to have a little bit of difficulty handling her sub, who could be a bit bitchy at times and therefore was wondering if Alyssa could agree to a a three way live-in arrangement (its not an official term anyway), which would enable Jane to be a live-in sub too and Alyssa could at the same time observe and maybe intervene in some of Jane's sessions with her sub. Let me explain. A three way arrangement is when a dom has a sub who has a sub and sessions are usually held together or they all live under the same roof. Honestly I don't know if this is common or not, well its fairly uncommon in Singapore but I am unsure elsewhere. So anyway it was Alyssa agreed to it. Alyssa stayed alone anyway, though she wondered what to tell her sister Adeline. But Adeline would call before dropping by anyway, so Alyssa decided that she would think of what to tell her when she called.

Well it turned out that Alyssa never did have to think about what to tell Adeline cause......

Jane's sub turned out to be Adeline. They had met in a chatroom sometime back and after a while of chatting online, they met for an intro session with Jane and have been in a dom/sub relationship so far. Adeline knew that Jane was a sub to someone else but did not know who it was. Adeline knew that her attitude at times made it a challenge for Jane during their sessions together but she was comfortable and trusted Jane which was most important for her. (Trust is a very important factor in a BDSM relationship. Hmmm in fact it is important in all relationships.) However the thrill of being dominated by two women made it all the more thrilling, so when Jane brought up her concerns of being her difficulty in handling Adeline at time and the possibility of having a three way live in arrangement, Adeline jumped at it. Plus, Adeline had been meaning to move out for sometime already.

So imagine the scene when Adeline and Jane arrived at Alyssa's place. Unfortunately or fortunately, when they were in a cab on the way there, Jane decided to blindfold Adeline. (Jane said that the taxi uncle was laughing thinking they were rather silly.) When Alyssa met them at the door, she found it rather amusing but yet remarked to herself of Jane's sub looked quite similar to her younger sister. But brushing off the thought, she ushered them in. Then Jane sat Adeline down on the couch and said to Alyssa, “Mistress, this is Adeline.” as she pulled the blindfold of Adeline. It must have been a funny sight. Jane said that both Adeline and Alyssa's eyes met and they both kept very quiet for quite sometime with a shocked expression. After a few uneasy moments of silence, Jane asked what was wrong and Alyssa replied, “She's my younger sister .” Well I shan't go into the rest of the uneasiness of that introduction for the three of them were unable to explain it properly and all they could say that it was kind of weird and uncomfortable at that time. Though Adeline did say that while she was shock, inside she felt a sudden rush of excitement like because she felt she didn't have to feel bad about her sister knowing and secondly the prospect of being dominated by her elder sister did seem intriguing.

So anyway, after the uncomfortable moments were over and done with, it was down to business. Alyssa made it very clear to Adeline that although she was her sister, it did not change the three way arrangement and at all times she was to address her as mistress as well. The rules of the house were laid out by Alyssa. At all times, unless there were vanilla guests in the house, Jane was not allowed on the big single seat armchair, which was reserved for Alyssa and only Alyssa. Adeline, being the lowest in the three way arrangement was to be seated on the floor at all times. Both Jane and Adeline had to have their collars on at all times in the house and were only to be dressed in their panties and a tank-top. No bra was allowed. As Adeline was currently not working at that time, the household chores were to be done by her. All except the cleaning of the two bedrooms which were to be cleaned by Jane once a week. And of course other rules were laid in but yada yada, they are usually endless.

Once the rules were laid down, Alyssa instructed both Jane and Adeline to put their bags in the room and get in the attire that they were supposed to be. When they returned, Alyssa made both of them kneel infront of her with their hands behind their back. Alyssa then brought up the issue of Adeline's attitude problem with Jane. Alyssa warned that if it continued she would have no choice but to intervene. Then as a warm up, she put Jane over her knee and gave her a good handspanking. Following which, Adeline was given a handspanking over Alyssa's knee. It was the first time that Adeline was given a handspanking by her sister and Adeline realised that Alyssa's spankings stung much more than those given by Jane.

The next day, when Alyssa and Jane returned from work, the whole place was in a mess and none of the supposed chores were done. Adeline was no where to be found. Knowing that Adeline's failure to follow the rules set were also attributed to Jane's lack of training for Adeline, Alyssa decided to give Jane a punishment there and then. Jane was made to strip of all her clothes and was given a blistering five minute or so of handspankings on her bare bottom as Alyssa lectured Jane throughout the spankings about how she had to take proper control over her sub. There was no rest after the handspankings as Jane was made to fetch the cane and a strap from the implement box. Then had to bend over the edge of the couch as Alyssa gave Jane ten hard stroke with the strap. Halfway through the strapping, Adeline returned home and stood there motionless as she saw the scene. Alyssa paused her strapping as she turn to Adeline and told her that Jane was being punished because Adeline had not cleaned up the place. She then ordered Adeline to strip off her clothes and kneel at the side of the living room. Meanwhile, Alyssa continued with Jane's strapping which was followed by five strokes of the cane. After Jane's punishment was over, Alyssa told Jane that she'd better teach Adeline to follow the rules and she'd expect to see Adeline crying by the time dinner was done. And with that Alyssa walked into the kitchen to prepare the night's dinner..

As Alyssa prepared the dinner, Jane turned her attention towards Adeline. She gave Adeline a good scolding and then proceeding to give the same punishment to Adeline as Alyssa had given to her.. And by the time dinner was ready, Adeline was crying alright. But Alyssa also noticed that she had heard Adeline talking back and trying to bargain with Jane over the number of strokes she was to receive. “Quite an attitude” Alyssa thought to herself, but decided to observe for a few more days before deciding whether to intervene at all.

Over the next few days, Jane ensured that Adeline kept to the rules and regulations and was spanked on a few more occasions. During those spankings, Alyssa noticed that although Adeline did show improvement in her attitude towards Jane, it seemed that there was much more improvement needed.

So after a week of observing, Alyssa decided that she would need to intervene a little. So during one of the evenings, while watching the TV, Alyssa abruptly turned of the TV as she snapped her fingers and point in front of her as she sat on her armchair. Well trained and observant, Jane quickly got off the sofa and got down to her knees in front of Alyssa with her back straight and her hands crossed behind them. Adeline on the other hand was her usual ill-trained lazy self and only slowly got into the same position next to Jane after seeing her get into it. Immediately, Alyssa grabbed Adeline by the arm and over her knee. Shocked, Adeline struggle d and tried to push herself up as Alyssa pushed her back down and ordered her to stop struggling. Alyssa then lectured Adeline about how slow she was to react when given an order. Ten hard spanks were given over Adeline's panties before they were tugged down and a further ten were given on her bare bottom. The spanks were fast and hard as Adeline gasped with each spank. After that, Adeline was ordered to strip before returning to the kneeling position. Adeline quickly obeyed this time, largely out of a bit of fear for she had not seen her elder sister that stern and serious before. Alyssa lectured Adeline again and told her that she had been observing for the past few days and did not like what she saw. She told Adeline that a sub should never argue or bargain with her dom. And should always be quick to obey and order given. She then told Adeline to stand by the side of the armchair to observe how Jane reacted as a sub.

Looking at Jane, Alyssa told her to remove her clothes and get over her knee. Jane quickly got up removed her clothes, folded it neatly, placed it on the sofa and went over Alyssa's knee. Alyssa proceed to give a two minute warm up handspanking during which Jane kept perfectly still throughout the whole time. After the handspanking, Alyssa told Jane to get the hairbrush from the punishment box. Jane quickly got it and handed it over to Alyssa before getting over her knee once again as she was told. Jane was instructed to count and thank for each stroke of the hairbrush. For each of the twenty strokes given, Jane kept perfectly still as she counted each stroke and thanked Alyssa for each one. Implement after implement, position after position, Jane obeyed Alyssa's instructions to the letter and not once did she disobey or try to bargain her way out.

Halfway through a strapping as Jane was on her hands and knees on the coffeetable, Alyssa asked, “Jane do you know why you are being punished?”

Amidst her tears Jane replied, “For not training Adeline properly Mistress.”

Looking at Adeline she asked Jane, “And do you need to be punished somemore?”

To this Jane meekly replied, “Yes Mistress, until you feel that I have been punished enough.”

Looking at Jane's reddened bottom, Adeline felt thankful that her Mistress was not her elder sister. But was it too early for that thought?

For as soon as Jane's punishments had seemed to be finished, Alyssa turned to Adeline and said, “Now lets see if you have learnt anything from what you have observed so far?” Adeline's heart dropped as her worst fears had apparently come true.

So once again implement after implement, position after position, Alyssa meted out the same spankings on Adeline.

But it started off rather badly considering that Adeline had seem to learn much from what she observed. As she received extra strokes for getting out of position and losing count. Tears flowing down Adeline's face she got down on her knees and begged Alyssa to stop the punishments for she could not take it anymore.

Ah but the end of the punishment is never decided by a sub so it seems, for Alyssa still had one last punishment for Adeline. As it was rather apparent that Adeline was quite unable to keep to the positions anymore, Alyssa decided to help her out a bit and she got Jane to tie Adeline to the coffee table so that she would be unable to move. The settled the issue of getting out of position. Ten last strokes of the belt and if Adeline managed to keep count all the way to the end, it would mean the end of the punishments for the day. But ten it wasn't to be. She lost count from number three and true to her word, Alyssa started from all over again each time that Adeline lost count. All in all, Jane reckoned that she counted almost forty stroke of the belt.

Adeline was a wreck by the time it was over but somehow, it seemed she learnt her lesson that very day. For when Jane gave her a punishment the following week, she obey all instructions to the letter.

Now this all happened back in 2006. The three way arrangement is still ongoing though but now its more of BDSM session that they hold together. But subs being subs, Adeline and Jane still get their punishments from time to time because of certain infractions they made.

A Personal Experience of Watching an Ah Beng spanking an Ah Lian

Monday, January 5, 2009 · 2 comments

Now Dear Readers, I shall share with you one of the scenes of spankings that I had seen while growing up. Nope it was not the defining moment that drew out my interest in spankings, I kind of had that interest from as early as I can remember, but it was one of the few scenes which has remained in my memory till now. It was a time quite long ago when I was in Secondary one. Like most of the people in Singapore who have gone to neighbourhood schools, I went through what you may call the Ah Beng phase. Where smoking was cool and fightings were to show off and days were spent fun-filled without a care in the world. Now at that time I hung out with a group of Ah Bengs in my school of which a large portion was older than me. It was one of those days where the whole group of us decided to skip school and go to one of the older boys place to hang out, smoke and probably gamble. I reached there with two other boys, slightly later than the rest, and when I entered the host's room I noticed that there was girl in our midst. She was the typical Ah Lian who was the girl friend of the host. And as we sat around in a circle on the floor with the host (who at that time was the defacto leader of our group) lying sideways on his bed (which was actually just a mattress) with his girlfriend behind him (cuddling him as well).

We started gambling with playing cards and as the game went on I noticed that the clothes of the Ah Lian were piece by piece being removed and thrown off to the edge of the bed. All in all we counted four pieces – her top, skirt, panties and bra – though the blanket was covering the both of them so what was underneath was pretty much left to our imagination. Or so we thought.

Anyway as the game continued (the gambling I mean), it became rather apparent that some of the younger boys such as myself seemed a bit uncomfortable with the scene of the host and his now-naked girlfriend cuddling him underneath the blanket while he gambled with us. I guess he sort of sense it as he chuckled and said in hokkein to the older boys, “See all this small kids, so embarrassed.” I mean you can't really blame us younger boys for I guess at that time, that moment was the closet we have ever gotten to a naked girl. The Ah Lian however did not seem to mind, giving a sense that it wasn't the first time that such a thing had happened, and still managed to join in the conversations which the older boys were having. (Us younger boys normally didn't say much plus we were all still in shock at that time by the fact that she was naked.)

After a while, I guess the Ah Lian got pretty bored (I mean there isn't much one can do when you are the only girl and only one naked with only a blanket to protect your modesty, in a room full of boys who are gambling), and so she began to disturb her boyfriend by taking one or two of his cards and throwing it out which of course kinda irritated him. Well he sort of found it amusing for the first and second time but after the third and fourth time he gave a rather irritated tone and told the Ah Lian that if she did it again she would regret it. Well she found it rather amusing for she was still giggling at that time and continued to do it every now and then. I could see the host's face getting blacker.

And then it happened, the Ah Lian flipped another card in his hand out to the floor once more. Raising his voice this time he threw off the blanket (but we didn't get to see anything for she was lying face down and pressed herself flat on the mattress when he threw off the blanket so as to protect whatever was left of her modesty and then as if out of nowhere the host brandished the kind of long wooden rulers we used in school and started to spank her bottom as he repeatedly alternated verbally in hokkien between “I told you not to do that already right?” and a slew of hokkien expletives, as he held her down with his other hand. The Ah Lian of course started shouting and screaming and attempted to push him away and block the spanks by struggling and waving her hands at him. After after three to five spanks, the host took his school tie (yes his school tie) and quite expertly tied the Ah Lian's hand behind her back before continuing to spank her bottom with the wooden ruler. The Ah Lian of course continued to struggle and shout out still. So after about another five or more spanks with the ruler, the older boys stood up and motioned for us to leave the room. As all of us sat in the living room smoking and us younger boys pretty quiet from what we had just saw, I assume the spankings continued for we heard the spanks of the ruler continue as well as the shouts of the Ah Lian which soon changed to crying. As we (the younger boys) smoked in silence the older boys seemed nonchalant about it, probably because they had witnessed it all before and told us that when we entered the room again later to just “act blur”. It must have been helluva spanking for it was only midway through our third cigarette that the door opened and we re-entered the room following behind the older boys. The Ah Lian was still sobbing and as I entered I assumed that she must have been still tied up. The blanket was covering her but she was lying face down and as the blanket was abit short, her legs from her calf down was left exposed and we could see that they were tied together at the ankles by probably another school tie.

As we all took our same seats on the floor the host muttered something to the Ah Lian who in return uttered an apology in hokkien, something about sorry for disturbing our game, as the Ah Beng warned that she should not embarrass him like that in front of his friends. Ah the MCP-ness of the the Ah Bengs then (or maybe now still?). Anyway the gambling continued for a few more hours before we all left, and the Ah Lian remained in that tied up position throughout rather subdued.

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